“Influential Roots: The Impact of Jay Hill’s Father on His Coaching Career”
“Jay Hill’s Journey: Lessons Learned from Family and Football”
Long before Jay Hill became a celebrated figure in collegiate football, whether as a standout player or a respected coach at prominent universities like the University of Utah, Weber State, and now BYU, he experienced a pivotal moment that shaped his understanding of respect and responsibility. At just 16 years old, Jay found himself in a situation that led to a lesson he would never forget: losing his driving privileges.
The incident unfolded innocuously enough during a lunch outing with his girlfriend near Lehi High School, where his father, Ferrell Hill, was teaching at the seminary. Jay parked the car in front of the seminary building but failed to open the door for his girlfriend. Little did he know, Ferrell Hill was watching from his classroom window. Later that day, upon returning home, Jay was met by his father on the porch, requesting him to surrender the car keys.
Reflecting on that moment, Jay recalls, “I got home after school and dad is standing on the front porch with his hand out. He told me to hand over the keys.” It wasn’t a punishment for reckless driving or neglecting the vehicle’s upkeep but rather a lesson in respect towards women, a core value deeply instilled by Ferrell Hill. “That’s just some insight on how he was raised, what kind of man and father he is,” Jay remarked, emphasizing his father’s commitment to teaching values that transcend sports and academics.
Growing up in a household guided by Ferrell and Venda Hill, Jay and his five siblings—Jeff, Cheri, Nicole, Tara, and Paul—were imbued with principles of hard work, dedication, and compassion. “My dad has meant everything to whatever success I’ve had,” Jay acknowledges gratefully. “I learned about hard work and dedication from my dad. He is willing to help anybody, at any time. He will drop whatever he is doing to help other people. That’s always kind of been who he is.”
Such selflessness has earned Ferrell Hill recognition beyond his family circle. He has been honored as the Deseret News’ unofficial Utah Sports Father of the Year, joining a prestigious list of fathers recognized for their impactful contributions, especially before Father’s Day. Alongside figures like Draper’s Mike Wilson and Tom Sitake, Ferrell Hill exemplifies the dedication and influence that fathers can have on their children’s lives, both in sports and in character-building.
Jay’s admiration for his father extends beyond personal anecdotes. Recounting an incident during his teenage years, Jay remembers a time when he was driving a four-wheeler near their family cabin. Facing a challenging hill, the vehicle stalled and rolled, highlighting the potential dangers of outdoor activities. It was moments like these that reinforced the lessons of caution and responsibility instilled by his parents.
Today, as BYU’s second-year defensive coordinator, Jay Hill continues to embody the values instilled by his father and family. His coaching career, marked by successes at various universities, reflects not only his technical prowess but also his commitment to mentoring young athletes both on and off the field. Jay’s coaching philosophy is deeply rooted in the principles of respect, discipline, and teamwork—values he learned firsthand from his upbringing and his father’s guidance.
As Jay Hill navigates the demanding world of collegiate football, he carries with him the enduring legacy of his parents’ teachings. Their influence has shaped not just his career but also his approach to leadership and mentorship. “I learned so much from my parents—about football, yes, but more importantly about life,” Jay affirms. Their lessons continue to resonate in his coaching style, fostering a culture of excellence and integrity among his players at BYU.
In essence, Jay Hill’s journey—from a young football enthusiast in Lehi to a distinguished coach in the competitive arena of college sports—is a testament to the profound impact of familial guidance and values. His story reminds us that behind every successful athlete or coach lies a supportive family and the foundational lessons that shape character and define success, both on and off the field.